Sorry this is my second thread on here in a day, don't mean to be multiple thread poster!
Was just about to email ex about this when I thought I would stop and ask advice.
Ex and dd generally have a nice relationship, she likes going there. Except for the following, which sometimes happen (as in one of , every time):
- He tells her he is miserable without me
- He tells her that people should forgive and I am not forgiving him and it's not right (this was a couple of days ago)
- He tells her he's sad that I don't allow him to put her to bed in my house (family house but I ask him not to come due to past abuse)
With a divorce coming up (see other thread), I can only see this getting worse and I am wondrering if I should send him a short email saying this is not ok, he is not to do this to her, and if he does I will stop contact, because it is abuse.
I'll email him on Monday now, when he won't be seeing her for a few days so he will have time to calm down after.
Sometimes I have a big fear that if I push him too much, it'll endanger her. No evidence for this, he's been physically abusive to me but not to her. And I think all the above is to get to me because he knows she tells me. But she and I are both fed up with it. I've asked her if she could tell him to stop - but she says she is worried he will shout at her.