I am not usually a precious snowflake but I am feeling really upset at something DH has done today. He thinks I am being oversensitive and that it was just a joke.
Every few months, DH will get into a bad mood for seemingly no reason at all. During that time he is uncommunicative, snappy, smirks all the time and makes smart arse comments. He is currently sort of in one of those moods.
We went to a supermarket this afternoon after going out for lunch as we're both working from home today. We got a rope chew toy for the dog amongst many other things.
At the till, as the man scanned the dog toy, DH picked it up, smirked, tried to put it in my mouth and said "Here you go", as if I was a dog. He said it in a really horrible tone, like it was a tone designed to bring me down a peg or two. Of course, the young lad operating the till burst out laughing and I just felt humiliated.
I ignored it at the time and then when we got to the car I said to DH that he was out of order and that I felt humiliated. As I said, he thinks I need to lighten up and that I am being oversensitive. I like a joke and a laugh, but I just feel like he crossed the line today.
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Would you find this upsetting or am I being over sensitive?
Libbyella · 02/02/2016 15:18
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