Hi, I've been around here for years but mostly a continual lurker.
I ended a 10 year relationship 2 years ago. He cheated and was awful.
In October last year I started dating a man. He's so so different to anyone I have ever dated before. He's kind, nice, funny, gentle.
He has baggage (don't we all over 30?) but it means he's scared of telling his ex partner (Mother of his child) that he's dating again, as the last time (before me) she stopped him from seeing his DD for a whole year.
I've fallen absolutely head over heels in love with him. I have not told him this. I can see a real future with him. I have not introduced him to my child, nor any of my friends and family.
This relationship won't go any further until he tells his ex about me, will it?
We see each other for a few hours a week on proper dates and chat all the time on text.
How can I turn my feelings off to just enjoy myself with him and not worry about the future?
Please someone just slap me
I can't talk to anyone in RL as I have no real friends I can confide in, only work colleagues that I chat to.
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How do I stop myself having feelings?
LillianaVess · 31/01/2016 11:13
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