I've posted here reviously about Exdp.
We're seperated. 16 year relationship & 4dc. Asked him to leave as he wont do anything. Just sits playing games on his phone when hes not at work. Rarely helps with the dc/house/garden/decorating.
He's very passive. Literally totally disengaged from family life. Relationship non existent between us. Its been especially bad for about 2 years.
He moved out 2 weeks ago. This is the fourth seperation in 8 years. Hes begging to come home.
Swears hes changed, seen the error of his ways. I would love to believe him but don't /can't.
Mentally im exhausted from doing everything for everyone for so long. Im exhausted thinking about the situation. I dont know if I have the ability or energy left to work on this relationship.
Can they change? What should i do?
Any advice appreciated.
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Can a passive man change?
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