Hello everyone, newbie please be gentle with me!
I've a dilemma about my first grandchildren. I'm beginning to feel increasingly pushed out by the childrens other Grandma. She lives in much closer proximity than me, has another grandchild that she looks after, although I'm only a couple of streets away, she is always asked to babysit, look after them when Mum goes to work. I've never been asked to look after them, take them out for a walk etc. Everything I make or buy them has to be washed - even though I've already done this (my house, belongings etc are all clean so that's not a problem) before they can have them. Maybe it's me, but I feel that I'm not trusted with them. I'm 'invited' to visit but the other lady is usually there so I don't feel I can stay long as I feel under scrutiny. I really don't want to say anything and cause bad feelings but I just feel their mum's mother is always there looking after them and doesn't really want me involved.
This is starting to make me feel upset, or maybe I'm just being over sensitive?
Anyway, thanks for listening :-)
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Dragonheart19 · 28/01/2016 17:51
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