Hey everyone! I'm a newbie here as far as posting goes however I have used the forum to read up on heaps since my pregnancy!
So, I have a daughter who is 2.5years old. Me and her dad split when she was 6 months old after 9 years together. I am 25. I stayed single and dated a bit until I met my boyfriend 7 months ago.
He was previously married but no kids. He is such a GOOD guy. So caring and genuinely loves us both to death. He accepts my daughter and would do anything I ask.... However... The sex just doesn't do it for me.
I love sex! I love everything about good sex. And we have spoken about what we both like, i do everything he likes and more to keep him satisfied. He however, listens to what I like and desire but does none. I told him (sorry for tmi) how I like a little hair tug or just take me in the spur of the moment type of sex. He doesn't do the hair thing cause he doesn't like it. But I do? He always plans sex in bed at night with the lights off and the routine is usually him lying there waiting for me to kiss him then me to give him a blow job where he will either finish or I'll stop and ask him to fuck... Zero foreplay for me he just climbs on and cums within minutes. Rolls over and sleeps. I'm so bored!!!! I don't feel sexy I don't feel wanted and I'm starting to look elsewhere which I don't want to do but.. I can't live with this forever! How do I go about talking to him about it without hurting him or making him feel useless? Sorry for the long post!
Thank you in advance xo
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