Sorry this is long for something that is actually quite trivial. Someone I used to be really really good friends with is moving abroad for work in a couple of weeks time. For the past few months our friendship has been a bit rocky but when we meet we seem (from my perspective) to get on well and have a laugh. The last time i saw her was between christmas and new year.
I sent her a message today asking if she was free to catch up before she left and got a reply that she was too busy. My instant reaction was to be a little offended as this feels like a brush-off, she only lives 10 minutes drive from me so neither of us need to make a huge effort to meet. She is single with no DCs and she hasn't worked and has been preparing for this move since the beginning of december so again i can't imagine what is going to fill all her waking hours between now and her leaving. I have in the past offered help with anything she needs doing.
I'd love to see her before she goes but am also tempted to call her on the too busy line. Should i just reply with a ok, if you change your mind let me know type message, or (as I'm tempted to do because I want to know if she really is lying to me) send a reply asking what it is that's going to keep her so busy for the next 2 weeks? Or can someone suggest an alternative approach?
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pampickedpepper · 27/01/2016 11:51
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