I've NC and although not a regular poster, I've been a lurker for years.
My BF found out last year that her DH had an affair. They are trying to work through this and are going to couple counselling. He isn't living at home at the moment but goes around a lot to see the kids and they do things as a family.
He also has a history of drug taking and when on drugs looking at porn.
She has been going through his phone records and has found lots and lots of numbers that are only connected for 1 second and lots of numbers that have phoned him and he doesn't pick up and then he immediately phones that number back but again it's only connected for 1 second.
We have tried to phoned these numbers to get to the bottom of it and they either go straight through to a generic answer machine message (i.e. o2, ee etc) but also lots and lots of them say number disconnected.
I think the reason she's asked me to post, is after advice from me (through reading on here for so long) she knows she can't go to her husband with suspicions as he could lie his way out of them so she needs to get facts before having it out with him so wondered whether any of you wise people might know about these type of calls.
Also if she was to go down the personal investigator route how would she find someone? I've read that nowadays they need to be tech savvy but wondered what we would search for?
Thanks so much in advance
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confusedfriend1 · 27/01/2016 09:05
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