Went on a great date last weekend. We stayed at the place for about five hours, he bought all the drinks, no awkward silences and lots of laughter.
Anyway I texted the day after to say thanks etc. He replied with a fairly long message, asking a question; I replied with banter about the date; he replied. He was going on holiday a couple of days later for ten days so I replied to his text with a message back saying "haha you'll have to tell me all about it when you next see me ;)" He hasn't replied but has seen the message.
(This was an internet date by the way so not like we see each other at work or anything.)
Sooo. Is he not interested? He definitely gave the impression of being interested on the date itself and as I say he messaged back with questions and long replies (longer than mine). It was only when I broached the second date that he went dead - in my mind there are two reasons (1) he doesn't want to see me again, fine (2) he's waiting to get back from hol to ask me out again.
Which is it?
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Playing hard to get or not interested?
VoddyWithCranberry · 25/01/2016 22:13
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