He is a bully, plain and simple. It has been going on for years and every time EVERY TIME I promise myself "next time, I leave" and I am still here
If you met him you'd think he was nice, pleasant and a real family man.
In the last 4 days I have been told by him...
I was a shit girlfriend now I'm a shit wife
I'm fucking thick
I'm a loser
I'm a waste of space
I will never amount to nothing
If it wasn't for him I'd have fuck all
He dragged me to where I am now
I have no ambition
I have been putting up with this sort of behaviour for years and I have had enough! I have fucking had enough of being made to feel worthless.
I always get apologies and "I only say that stuff out of anger/frustration/spite" and now he's all nicely nice.
There have been many many occasions I have been sat sobbing after his tirades and he has sat there with a look of disgust on his face then he puts his hands up to his face, makes a gesture of rubbing his eyes and said "boo fucking hoo"
And this piece of shit claims to love me?
Oh and when I asked, during his last mouthful, why he married me, he said it was "a strategic move" or words to that effect.
I don't even like him any more. He has made me feel worthless.
Guess I'm just scared, not of being on my own, I have a house so I'll be ok, but of him kicking off. I'm waiting for my moment.
I have truly fucking had enough
(Just needed to vent)
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I am going to leave my husband. I WILL do this
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