Just as DH has started helping out a little more this week and thinking for himself, he does something a bit silly this morning.
I decided to set my alarm 15 minutes later than usual as I showered the night before, plus DD is up during the night a lot at the moment, so need extra sleep!
DH wakes me up at my normal time (before my alarm goes off) and tells me "it's time to get up" I sleepily said "not just yet" and dozed back off.
I generally get up 15 minutes before DH to shower, he then gets up and dresses DD whilst I dress myself (our usual routine.)
I awoke 15 minutes later and went to the next room to begin getting ready, assuming that DH would be getting DD up as normal only to find him still in bed playing on his phone meaning we're now 15 mins behind schedule! I asked him why he isn't up and he responded "I always get up 15 minutes after you."
I find this response so child-like, I was really unhappy. DH is difficult to motivate at the best of times and needs the routine of the morning to get our family, up, ready and out of the door. I just can't believe that through me staying in bed a while longer, he needs to do the same at the expense of getting out of the door on time!
As a result, I was late for work and had to get another teacher to cover my registration. So annoyed. How do I deal with this? My man needs constant instruction and motivation... it's frustrating!
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