Good morning people, I just needed a female perspective on something that is troubling me to see if I'm being unreasonable....
I'm Gareth, 42 from Northern England. I have been dating, my girlfriend of 51 now for 18 months & I don't think we're moving forward.
I do everything for her, try to be the best boyfriend that I can be, yet it feels like it's going nowhere. I do all her maintenance stuff around the house, take her on holidays, try to be as supportive as possible, give her space etc, yet after 18 months, we see each other for a couple of hours in the week & again at the weekend. Am I being unreasonable in wanting more? I don't expect to be waited upon, get involved with stuff & think I'm low maintenance. We've talked about a future together yet, nothing seems to be happening. Whenever I try talking to her, she shushes me as she's watching Tv. Do you think I should:
A) Get out and move on?
B) Stick it out?
C) Something else?
I'd not normally put up with this however, I do love her. Thoughts???
Gareth
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Relationship advice. Male question.
TheNaze73 · 18/01/2016 09:30
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