Hi, not sure why I am posting, but here goes...
Huge problems in my relationship. We broke up over christmas due to drunken arguing. We reconciled last week, and had a great few days. However, on Saturday evening, I was accused of flirting with someone else (I wasn't). Cue him pinching my leg so hard my eyes watered, then him putting his hands around my throat and shoving me.
He got shoved back by a friend of a friend who I was accused of flirting with... I then went home as I was extremely upset.
Since then, I have had abusive texts etc. This is not the first time he has been violent (I know, I know). But I know that I am innocent in all this as I did nothing wrong. And now he is completely ignoring me, sending me vile messages, etc.
I just know that I love him, and I don't understand how he can be so cruel. Why would you do this to someone you 'love'? Sorry, rambling here, not really sure what I am trying to achieve, it's just quite nice to be able to vent about it.
I am pretty sure he has bi polar or something, as he overreacts constantly over nothing, and is jealous and paranoid all the time.
I have had no sleep because I have been worrying and stressed over this (obviously we don't live together), and I have to go to work in an hour... Feeling empty and gutted, and not sure where to turn.
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Penguin2016 · 11/01/2016 06:57
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