My mum is in her early fifties and has been married to my dad for over 20 years. Dad is also in his early fifties. I am quite close to my mum and she is comfortable talking to me about personal matters, much as I feel the same telling her about mine. During one of our recent chats, she told me she isn't happy and hasn't been for a long time. The reason she gave was that her and my dad have not DTD for over four years. She also said they very rarely kiss nowadays and he does not show much affection towards her. She feels they are now little more than good friends who share the same bed. She does not want to leave my dad as she still loves him, but she doesn't want the present situation to continue as it's making her feel miserable and unloved.
It's only been a few days since my mum told me about all this. I love my parents and don't want them to get a divorce. Is there any hope for their marriage at this point? What advice should I give her, if any? A few people might be thinking it's none of my business etc, but my mum wouldn't have told me if she didn't want me to know.
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My mum has confided in me - she is frustrated and unhappy due to lack of intimacy with my dad. What advice should I give her?
fringillavigo · 08/01/2016 18:47
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