I have just come out of a long term relationship and was speaking to a boy our whole exchange was messages although I do know him as a person because he lives near me we spoke a lot constantly and both really liked each other straight away he was saying he wants to see me and take me out and I'm beautiful and stuff and I told him straight away I was not interested in a serious relationship because I had just left one but I still wanted to enjoy his company we continued talking he still always told me how much he liked me but then he just suddenly stopped replying I sent him messages and got ignored then he messaged me one night saying "I don't want you to think I'm messing you about I just been thinking about things and what I want and don't want to lead you on whilst I work these things out" I was confused because I don't want a relationship like that with him but I just politely agreed for him to take as much time as he needed another week went by so I messaged him again I got ignored so I asked him why he was ignoring me and he replied saying "I don't know what to say" so I said "just tell me the truth what you really want what your thinking about" and he messaged me saying "that's the thing I don't know I will end up getting to attached to you and i can't have that happening" so I just ended it there and said to message me in the future if he changes his mind , he is only 22, I'm 23. What do you think he means by he will end up getting to attached It's been confusing me ever since he said It
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Boy I've been speaking to says he doesn't want to get attached
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AmandaMckinelly · 07/01/2016 14:32
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