Hi my husband left 3 months ago after 17years together we have an 8 year old daughter it came as a complete shock I think it still hasn't really sunk in. I have been just surviving until Xmas as I wanted my daughter to have a good Xmas and she wanted him to come for the day. I've been trying to sort the money side of things out which is getting there other than him deciding to not give the the right amount cm but that maybe sorted now. I did want to try and sort things out as his reasons seemed something that could be sorted out but he is still adamant that there is no way not that I am sure I want to anymore it's just that I am very hurt and the last couple of days I have been feeling quite low I do have friends and family that will support me but feel awful moaning to them all the time and I worry that they think I'm stupid for still sort of wanting to sort it out just don't know how to sort out how I'm feeling and what I want to do for me how I can get to move on. My daughter is sort of doing ok she doesn't seem to mention it much she has the odd outburst and she knows I love her lots just need a boost somehow I have got a counciling appointment in a couple of weeks but it feels a long time away
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Husband has left but not mutual after 17years together
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Lilfroggi1 · 04/01/2016 10:25
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