I NC for added security of my other stuff I talk about. This - I can't talk to anyone about.
I have a dear friend I met in my teens. We worked together. He fancied me a lot. Me less so, I did but I just never wanted to try that road. We kissed maybe 4 times but often shared a bed crashed out. However I adore him, lots of memories, great fun, plenty of partying and drinking. Visiting each other at Uni.
We both met DP. We socialised a fair amount as a four. Then it kinda stopped. We went to each other's weddings. We did early kids Bday parties.
We message sporadically but always Christmas, Birthdays. Check in. But definitely drifted.
I realise this is long. So I'm going to post up what's bothering me and come back to fill in gaps. Not drip feeding I promise, just there's a lot.
He told me very recently that he still adores me and never got over me.
We spent a night together (no sex, lots of hugging, clothed I hasten to add).
He's married. I'm nearly divorced.
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Old friend expressed feelings for me. Need help as there are complications - marriage/divorce/children
NCforawhile · 03/01/2016 18:40
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