I have no one to talk to about this and it's start to make me feel Crap.
We've been married for 7 years and have two DC, 5 and 3.
But we aren't really intimate anymore. We don't kiss anymore apart from the perfunctory kiss in the cheek in the morning. We don't sleep together. Part from once or twice a year. It's been like this for two years. DH will hug me or lie down on the couch with me while we watch tv. But that's it. I feel like we are room mates who live together and just happen to have kids.
I don't feel loved anymore. I feel like we just do our duty and that's it. There's no real fun or spark between us.
We've been to therapy and we are still in the same boat. I feel like I'm always asking for kisses or suggesting we DTD. But nothing helps.
Just so I don't drip fees, we have been through a lot. DH had a one night stand and was caught drink driving. And that was why we went to therapy.
How long do I keep waiting? Do some couples just go through life with no intimacy and are ok?
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Jamandcheese · 29/12/2015 21:16
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