Been married over 20 years with lots of ups and downs. Dh has never held a job long term and lost his current one 3 weeks ago. He claims to have other things in the pipeline but will only do jobs that he wants to do rather than anything that would help cover the bills. He also barely lifts a finger at home so I get back from work to find cups and breakfast bowls lying around etc. He says he's not going to bother as I clearly don't want him here.
He refused to turn the TV down last night while I was trying to sleep as he said he had lost the remote control. I pointed out that some consideration would be nice and asked how his job hunting was getting on. He refused to answer and waved me away with his hand He has also twirled his finger at his head before now to imply that I am crazy. This usually happens when I have asked him things that he doesn't want to answer. For the last 2 days he has stayed in bed until around 2pm as he can't be arsed to get up then stays up late (4am one night) making noise. I am getting sick of this and have to get up at 5am for work tomorrow. He refuses to leave due to having no income and nowhere to go. What can I do?
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody
Relationships
Demeaning and disrespectful
14 replies
Purpleflipflops · 28/12/2015 13:30
OP posts:
Arfarfanarf ·
28/12/2015 13:43
This reply has been deleted
Message withdrawn at poster's request.
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.