Last weekend we visited my PILS and they seemed to ask me several times not to put my DS in the "naughty corner" after he had either thrown something or hit - I didn't but by the end of the weekend felt they do not like the way I parent at all - DH was not present for most of the times this was said to me.
DS seemed to spend most of the weekend throwing things!
The previous week we had visited my parents and they had backed me up with discipline( i realise now) and my Mum even said I must be a wonderful mum when DS did something he was asked to that he had not wanted to do - so complete contrast to perception of me as mum.
We think that next time we visit PILS we will ask each other what we want to do if they say to back down or say DS is now getting confusing messges - or am I too strict? Worried I can be negative with DS - very quick to tell off maybe?
Thanks in advance for help
Caver
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caver · 15/12/2006 14:55
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