Hi all,
I'm going to stick my head above the lurker parapet.... I posted separately a few months ago about someone I had met, that I was having some flirty conversations with - a friend of an old friend of mine.
It died down until quite recently, we got chatting online again, then we were out with the mutual friend and some others two Saturdays ago, and I realised he was being friendlier and smilier than I expected. We both ended up pretty drunk and at some other friends' party, and had a long chat and kissed.
I told him the other week that I thought we should just be friends, as I am not divorced yet (separated August 2014 from my girls' dad, very amicably), and he had said that had made him nervous about getting involved with me, plus he wants children of his own, and as I'm on my own and trying to cope with a full time job and two young daughters, I actually don't know what I want right now.
Anyway, I don't think we should just be friends. He's lovely, warm, funny, cute as, and brilliant company. I really, really like him and want things to develop. We're all going to a birthday party on Saturday night. I'm so nervous!