I am 4 months in to a new relationship after a horrible end to my last relationship which was 18 months ago. I have read living with the dominator as the freedom programme is not available in my area. To be clear I have known new man for a couple of years, we get on well the majority of the time. We're no spring chickens, both in our forties. I have 2 teenage dc who he has met before we were in a relationship. I'd be the first to admit I can be hard work due to issues from previous partner and narcissistic abuse. Don't want to go into too much detail just giving a bit of background. So my issue is today I was very upset. I called new man & could hardly speak through crying. I managed to explain what was wrong & he just said he didn't know what to say. He didn't offer to come over although he's only about 10 minutes away. I didn't ask him to. We were supposed to be seeing each other at some point today but hadn't made firm plans. By 7 tonight I hadn't heard from him again since the phone call this morning so I sent a text asking why. His reply was he had been busy. Am I expecting too much to think he might have been concerned about me or contacted me?
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