Ok so I own the house we live in, we have a 5 month old and dad works part time so pays enough to help with bills (about a quarter of what I pay). Our relationship has been pretty turbulent with his dad nearly moving out when our little one was about a month old. We've been trying to work things out and most of the time its pretty good until I complain.
Its fair enough that I pay more as its my house and when I go back to work I will earn more, but we will share childcare as my salary won't stretch to nursery. The house needs some work doing to it before little one gets to crawling and at the moment I'm trying to do this during nap times or in the evening. Things like sorting floors and fitting a new toilet and painting/decorating.
He's said because it's my house he feels used if he helps with anything, this stretches to hoovering and cleaning as well. So he's basically refusing to help with any DIY and tbh mostly goes to works, goes out a lot and generally has a pretty easy life (he has looked after babba for the odd full day so I can sort the house out). Whilst I look after wee one, do the house up and try and keep in touch with friends so I don't isolate myself. Am I being unreasonable to expect him to help me with the DIY and do more round the house?
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Am I expecting to much?
ferryandeno · 26/11/2015 12:34
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