My dsis is with a dick of a partner.
She has been with him roughly 4 yrs. She has two Dd's from a previous relationship that was also horrific!
Dick has cheated on her numerous times, he will only admit to what he has been directly caught out on, so for example he was caught with messages on his phone meeting a younger girl and is adamant they didn't have sex and only kissed ect ect, despite inviting girl to their house when my dsis was away.
They have split a few times and she had a good few months without him but ended up back with him, she says she finds it difficult to manage paying the bills without him, not that he contributes fairly but he does pay in some money.
So even though he has been caught cheating he still will not allow her access to his phone and is still off out most weekends. Last weeks she found a meal reservation on his email when he apparently had plans to go to a works leaving do. She confronted him about this and he said he was planning to take his mum [anger]
It's just so hard to be around her, I want to shake her and tell her how much better she can do. She has had some awful things happen in the past 6 yrs and has had a shitty childhood too and she needs some happiness.
Can I say anything to make her see? Do I just ignore it and continue to have to hear about how bad he treats her (she will only talk about this once every few months when every comes out, usually she is evasive)
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There is nothing I can say to her is there?
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Stampynono · 13/11/2015 15:21
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