I don't know why I am posting but I think I need my hand held.
I broke up with my husband six months ago. He attempted suicide to prevent me going. I still left.
Now going through with the divorce. Fine with me.
But its as if he can't accept it. He finds ways to contact me every week. Specifically every weekend, so that he finds out what I'm doing, or if I'm in, or he's asking people what I'm doing.
I'm finding it creepy now. I mean, I am getting worried about his behaviour. I haven't spoken to him directly in months and I get more and more indirect contact. The neighbours telling me odd things about me that he's said, him acting all concerned for my welfare.
He's under investigation by SS for some bad behaviour towards the kids which I can't talk about but I feel I will never be free. He's determined for me to know that he's there, even when I've cut off all contact. No email, facebook, whatsapp... new trick is getting things "accidentally delivered to the house".
Has anyone got through this or is standard crazymaking - he seems obsessed now. Did you get through it and how?
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kumarmum79 · 09/10/2015 16:19
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