I'm confused.
My STBexH hardly ever got angry. I remember 3 times in 7 years where he did. He never called me names or threatened me. I read 'Why Does He Do That?' yesterday and although I could identify with the signs of an abused woman and some of the behaviours of abusve men fit H, I didn't really feel like he fit the profile.
Can someone be abusive without being angry? By financial wrangling, deceit, disloyalty, laziness?
This man is obviously abusive. I thought my H was too but now I'm not so sure.
Any thoughts?
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Abusive but not angry?
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ThomasRichard · 08/10/2015 19:23
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