This isn't a recent thing, I can remember it happening right back through all my relationships.
I love my husband, and I know he loves me, but it's like I'm just waiting on him getting fed up with me, or finding someone better. I always feel suspicious to some extent, whether he's texting or working late, or makes some innocuous comments. FWIW, I don't think he's ever cheated on me, but I've been like this with EVERYONE.
We were watching Doctor Foster last night and over an hour he told me he loves me 3 times. Immediately I was suspicious, and asked if he was feeling guilty about having it off with someone else. He said of course not, it was just the kind of programme that makes you appreciate the good relationship that you have.
Don't get me wrong, I hide this VERY well and rarely bring it up, but it's always there in the back of my mind.
How can I stop? I'm starting to annoy myself now.
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How can I stop being so suspicious?
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ICanSeeForMiles · 08/10/2015 12:46
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