Ok so I've had a friend for the last 20 years. I met as her when I moved in as her lodger and have never really shaken off that dynamic. I've been having intense psychotherapy after having regular therapy for the last year . Basically the friendship mirrors my childhood / adult relationship with my very critical, selfish neglectful mother. I was her bridesmaid (goffa) she was my bridesmaid ( because she expected to.be asked ) and my eldest son's godparent (because she expected to be asked) she was rubbish . I cut off friendship last year had enough of being ignored, she has never been there for me during difficult times ever . She's bossy , opinionated and domineering always has been ..We went out recently I told her through tears how let down I've felt (when her children were born she favoured a bunch of new mummy friend's over me basically told me to.go find myself new friend's) which I am doing .. she wants to reconcile ( go for dinner) I can't be bothered but I'm sad about it ...what would you do ?
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