Hi,
I am new here and wasn't quite sure where this fitted. Seems a nice place and I am just working my way around.
Anyway, I will get to my question.
I am a parent of a ten year old with ASD who was diagnosed 4 years ago.
Does anyone else feel like their friends just dont want to bother with them?
I understand they are busy, people have other lives especially as parents. However, I make the time for people and feel like I am always the one ringing asking if they are busy and if they would like me to call and have a chit chat.
I contacted someone last week, I havn't met up with them for a good while and thought she would like a little catch up. I also knew she would say no with a thousand excuses, and thought if there was no effort made I am not bothering again. Yep, thousand excuses and no effort of a rearrange. I wasn't asking her to do cartwheels for me, just an hour of her time for a catch up...even if she rearranged for another day would have been good but no, nothing.
I do feel lonely, and I do do something about it, I go to groups to meet other parents and make friends etc.
Anyway, anyone else feel like this??? or am I just a little sensitive???
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