Hello there, I've got to the point where I don't know what to do anymore on this problem. It all started when we moved to our new house my oh started making friends with the neighbours as did I, my oh manged to make friends quite quickly he's an extrovert and like to get along with everyone. I on the other hand am a introvert and have some anxity problems we all started becoming very good friends going out to meals/parks etc until one day the neighbours wife stopped talking with me she would never answer me but would still talk to my oh I started to feel uncomfortable and she made excuses to my oh on why she want to go out with me anymore. Months passed and my oh went out with the neighbours leaving me home feeling very pushed out. Finally I realised he had been moaning to the neighbours about me so they formed a bad opinion of me, yes couples can vent to there friends but he told them very private stuff that they didn't need to know. Just lately they have been telling my oh that they feel sorry for him that there this close to having a go at me! and that they are there for him plus to delete his messages from them as they keep saying nasty comments about me. Me and my oh never keeps secrets from each other and always tells me when they are being that way but he's not once stuck up for me and when I feel hurt by what they say he tells me so moaning. It's really starting to affect me as I feel I can't walk out my front door without them messaging my oh saying stuff like oh she's off spending again even tho I'm just going out for food shopping. I get no support from my oh and feel like he's siding with them even my oh has had bad run in with them, if he doesn't message them all day it's don't you like us anymore has your wife told you not to talk with us? I would never stop my oh from being friends with anyone. I feel very alone and trapped in this house I would love to hear from everyone who could give me so advice on this matter
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01/10/2015 18:52
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