I have a 2 year old son and a 6 month old baby so as you can imagine I'm pretty busy!
DH's sister lives a few doors away from us, she is a single parent to 7 year old twins. DH's mother lives a few streets away.
So anyway DH's sister decided to get a job which is great, apart from the fact that she never sorted out childcare as she just assumed that the family would ralley together to help her. So she goes off to work in a morning and DH's mother goes around the take the kids to school, she also looks after DH's other sisters son who is 8 months old so as she's passing our house in a morning to get to his sisters she drops off the 8 month old here , she has never asked if this is ok, she just walks in at 8am, dumps the pram in the living room and says "I won't be long". This has been going on for a few weeks now and its driving me mad, as if I don't have enough to do in a morning without looking after another baby.
To make matters 100 times worse, the sister works until 6pm so about 2:30pm we occasionally (a few times a week) get a phone call saying that none of them can pick the kids up from school so I "have" to do it!! DH is at work so it's left to me to get my own kids ready, walk to the school, pick the kids up, faff about bringing them back here...they don't behave, they're hyper and have never had any boundries so just run around breaking things and are into everything and I have this until 5pm until DH's mother gets home from her work and comes to pick them up .
They're driving me mad, they don't even ask which is the bit that really winds me up, they just assume I'll do it as they all jump as soon as one of them needs help but I have enough to do with my own kids.
Another thing they've started doing is just bringing the 7 year olds around on a saturday and telling DH that we have to look after them as their mum is still at work and everyone else is busy (as if we never are!) and once one of them brought the kids around, dumped them on the doorstep, rang the bell and then jumped back into their car and drove off so we couldnt protest! it's bloody stupid. Is it me? should I be more willing to help??
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abouttosnap · 30/11/2006 16:15
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