I have been living in an unhappy relationship for a while now, and was going to give it a year, but I am finding this increasingly difficult. I have just tried to speak to my H, he said he had no time to talk, but I told him anyway, that I was unhappy and did not want to be with him. He said that he thought we were trying to work things out and get back together via the counselling. However, we only had one appointment and have been on a waiting list ever since. In the one apt we attended, he basically slagged me off for an hour in quite an arrogant fashion, however the counsellor seemed quite keen on him, so maybe I just see it through thwarted eyes. He seems to be in to rubbishing me in front of the kids more than anything else at the moment. I was just taking my daughter to bed and she refused to clean her teeth, kept running away, hiding, shouting at me so I was very stern with her and said that if she did not clean her teeth by the time I had counted to 3 then I would cancel her weekend trip out. I repeated this a few times. So she runs to him and he says "Don't worry, let me take you to bed you poor thing", then says to me in front of her "Look at you, threatening a little girl like that".
So when I talk to him and say I am not happy and I don't want to sort thing out and be with him again, he is full of how awful I am to him and the poor children. I don't understand, if I am so awful and so slovenly, fat, stinky, ugly, a liar, a pig and a bully to him and the kids as well and an abuser in every sense, then WHY DOES HE WANT TO STAY WITH ME??
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RitaOra2 · 23/09/2015 22:26
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