Hi.
As a bit of background, I have some issues being an over-achiever, after a difficult childhood that might belong in the stately homes thread and have always felt subtly not good enough and like I have to be the best and prove myself.
I have some serious intimacy issues after a breakup a few years ago that really left me too scared to get close to anyone since. I haven't enjoyed living alone and got a flatmate who's just left so I'm lonely and not enjoying the quiet.
I throw myself into work and social events but am lonely and don;t really have anyone at all I am close to.
Due to curcumstances, I find myself with a couple of months off work and a bit of money and freedom and wanted to try and make this a turning point where I started to love myself a bit, be happier being alone and maybe get myself into a place where I might be ready to love someone again.
Does anyone have any idead of maybe some things that are really positive about living alone, or some fun experiences or challenges I could set for myself to maybe try and enjoy life a bit more instead of just working and existing? I never really relax and am always busy with some project or another but feel life is pasing me by and I am hiding from it.
Ideally what I want is a loving relationship, but don't feel ready because I am scared of being hurt again.
Thanks
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Ideas for a couple of months of "me" time for someone uncomfortable with that
Betty89 · 17/09/2015 16:27
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