I am NC with my parents now but I was talking about this with DH yesterday an just wondered if anyone else had the same experience.
My younger sister was/is always the golden child and I wasn't liked at all by my parents.
From an early age they always told me I was naughty, difficult, nasty, evil, hard to get along with, weird. When actually looking back I was nothing of the sort. Even as a small child I would say something totally normal and innocent and would be told 'Oooh you're a nasty piece of work'. They would always refer to what a difficult baby and toddler I was, when it sounds like I was just a normal baby and toddler.
As a teenager, they made out that I was badly behaved, rude, nasty, calculating, etc, when I wasn't a bad teen at all.
I was always told that if anyone was horrible to me I deserved it, even when I was bullied at secondary school.
I grew up thinkng that I must be an awful person as clearly even my own family didn't like me.
They also always painted me as a naughty, nasty child to other family members and to family friends.
Did anyone else have a similar experience?
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ArabellaBoo · 05/09/2015 09:13
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