I am not sure if this really fits in relationships but here i go. My friend has just gotten out of a financially and verbally abusive relationship. But here is the problem. She is an ex alcoholic who has managed to get herself sober but only after having encountered numerous health issues making it hard for her to find a job. She lives of benefits and because of her contract still lives with her ex partner. It used to work out ok but has gotten bad again. If she moves out early she can be taken to court for the rent (she was advised) and she can't find a new place on acocunt of her dog. The dog is more or less a support dog as she has kept her alive and willing to fight. loosing her dog would mean devastation to her. Her mother is already pressuring her to get back together with her ex insulting her in the process, which led to a breakdown. She has started self-harming again. She is tired and says AA is putting massive pressure on her blackmailing her if she doesn't do extra meetings they will drop her. She is physically exhausted and cannot bear loosing her dog who has given her so much strength in the past causing her to put her dog before her own health.
Anybody got any advice?
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justonepost · 03/09/2015 20:08
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