4 months on from discovering messages to someone else and the feelings of mistrust and anger just won't shift
I know he's doing it again, he doesn't have time to physically cheat but will sit on his phone all evening and hide it when he gets messages. It goes everywhere with him.
I brought up him snooping on my phone even though he was the guilty party- he thought I was fast asleep but I watched him do it. So no respect and no privacy even though I am the one that's hurting.
Am I a fool for wanting to see something tangible before I decide what to do next? He has an empty (deleted?) archived chat on whatsapp with a girl he's not friends with on any social media. Pretty, thin, bikini etc. Is this what I think it is?
Tried discussing my feelings tonight but it didn't get me far, he is snoring away whilst I am awake feeling poorly.
And yes I know I shouldn't put up with this, and no I don't know what to do but I've been sick all day and now I'm wide awake wanting to ramble about my shitty relationship. I can't bottle it up anymore it's destroying me.
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CrapNameChange · 02/09/2015 00:33
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