I am sick to the back teeth of people who think that they can treat me as they wish and then fall out with me if I do or say anything that remotely comes close to how they have behaved towards me.
For example the woman who lives next door to us moans at us if we make even the slightest sound, she moaned when we put a new fence up which didn't even border on her property as she didn't like it, moans if we have a barbecue as she has her washing out (we've not had a bbq in 3 years so it's not like we have them often!!). Yet she and her family have barbecues every weekend through the summer, their dog barks constantly in the middle of the night too, and they make a lot of noise with arguing, music playing etc. I know that if she was ever tackled about the things that she would moan at us about, she would go absolutely bonkers!
Also DD's school friend's mum is overly involved and invested in her DD's friendships and blows hot and cold towards me depending on how things are in our DDs friendship at the time (the girls are 10). She is sometimes very snappy at DD and doesn't hesitate to tell her off if the girls have had an argument. Yet if I did the same to her DD and was snappy towards her or - shock horror - told her off, the mum would hate it and would probably fall out with me big time. When it was sports day in the summer the mum was sitting near me and the girls came over and my DD said something to the mum and the mum totally snapped at my DD and shot her down.
Why can't some people take what they dish out?
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How to deal with people who act unreasonably but are super fussy about how you treat them?
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RealityPlanet · 31/08/2015 22:15
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