NC to avoid outing myself.
How do you move past historical issues?
I was truly in love with one of my exes. We were together for several years and in most ways we had a perfect relationship. The last day I saw him he took me to the lake. As we sat there he was talking about us being together forever and how we were going to get married.
And that was the last time I saw him. He dropped me off at home and that was it. He just stopped returning my calls. He didn't even break up with me, I just eventually realised it was over. I went from "oh my god he wants to marry me" to "oh my god it's over"
It has been many years and I still can't seem to get past the mistrust I have of men in general.
I destroy relationships because I just don't believe it when people try and say they care and I am so sure that they will leave me that I end up facilitating it.
I don't want to be like this any more. But I'm not sure how to change? Has anyone managed to get past something like this? I don't want to be self destructive any more
(Please don't be too harsh, I know I am pathetic)
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How do you get past trust issues?
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definiteissues · 31/08/2015 19:13
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