DP and I were discussing this the other day. We live apart at the moment in separate countries and I am due to join him next year. He is worried that if we are not married and anything happens to him, I will not be eligible for his pension.
We are both still married to our previous partners (both separated for about 3 years) and would obviously need to get divorced first. I'm not particularly bothered about marriage itself, but I do take his point, because the country we will be living in has strict rules around issues like pension beneficiaries.
I'm not sure how I feel about it all really, I'm neither excited nor offended by the idea.
Any thoughts?
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LuisSuarezTeeth · 31/08/2015 12:32
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