My DP and I have just had a big argument. The situation is that money is pretty tight right now due to my switching jobs recently (through necessity) which means I now have more responsibility for less money. DP works PT and does some of this from home.
Due to our childcare arrangements I have not had a proper break from work (longer than a weekend) in over four years, and after a period of depression I have been on ADs for nearly a year. This followed a horrible bereavement.
Tonight I finally said how stressed and unhappy I feel. DP said that I should stop complaining as lots of people work long hours and don't get annual leave. When I said about the ADs DP said I should stop taking them as I am 'hiding' and should 'face it.'
I feel quite betrayed and alone, that DP does not take this seriously and gets extremely defensive if I talk about it.
I am seriously thinking about divorce as I do not feel supported. Our DCs are the only thing stopping me right now.
Any thoughts? Am I moaning too much?
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Jdee41 · 30/08/2015 01:53
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