For background: I'm one year post breakup of a very long relationship. I categorically don't want another. Have an OD profile which is pretty clear about what I'm looking for (not casual sex, not one nighters but more of an exploratory kinky FB setup).
Anyway, had a first date last week with someone I met online (OKC 99% match if that means anything ) and it was really good fun (no crazy chemistry but he was easy on the eye and we laughed a lot) although I did notice that a few times when I said something he didn't react at all apart from to change the subject to something entirely different about him (it didn't flow like I've experienced before iyswim). Anyway, he seemed quite keen and initiated a kiss towards the end of the evening.
He's been making contact most days since and we have been discussing another date. I suggested cinema or more drinks and he brought up the fact that he'd been thinking of asking me to his for drinks.
Which to me means he thinks we'll have sex. I feel a bit uneasy. I don't want a traditional relationship at all and I do mainly want sex but I am also not willing to let myself be used by someone who is just looking for a spunk receptacle.
What say ye? Ditch or date?
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Do I go on another date with this guy?
Playasgonnaplay · 28/08/2015 17:49
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