Hi everyone,
I very recently found out that my long term partner went on a stag do and had a lap dance. He told me that his friend bought the lap dance for him but he told me that he regrets having it, he was drunk etc. in my opinion if you DIDNT want it, you wouldn't go? If I was drunk and a naked male stripper offered me s dance I would say hell no!! Every time we talk about it he tries to turn the tables on me, saying he thinks we should go on a break. I don't think he realises how much he had hurt me and betrayed my trust. I just don't know what to do anymore. He thinks if I just get everything off my chest everything will be okay but he doesn't realise that I now have trust issues. I have caught him before flirting with girls online. Does he want to be with me? When he isn't doing these things he is really nice and loving but it's always in the back of my mind that he has done this to me.
Sorry about the rambling and if it's a bit depressing haha but I just needed to get this off my Chest and get some opinions!
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liv179 · 26/08/2015 13:52
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