Hi first time poster came here after advice from friends didn't seem to work or appropriate,
I recently challenged my husband on his coldness towards me and lack of intimacy and indifference to me being here or not some days,
I have male friends but mostly via couples we have gotten to know and a few from my own work and social circle but one new friend i made a couple of years ago was hated intensely by my husband and cutting a long story short just over a year ago i was accused of either being in an emotional affair or a physical one with the friend he hated, I was then told to chose him or my friend i said no i refuse to throw away a friend at his say so when nothing is happening and tried to explain that i loved him and the friend was just that a friend that my friend that i gym with and sometimes bump into on girls nights out, he simmered about that but nothing much more and was still being nice then 6 months ago friend relocated with his work and husband then gloated that i had lost both now that he moved away, i was speechless that he harboured this grudge quietly for so long well maybe the odd comment disguised as a joke here or there but not this happy that he's gone and ignoring me, Has anyone else been through this or got any suggestions on how to try and move us on from here?
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Zanymummy · 20/08/2015 20:58
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