This is really just a rant to get it off my chest before I send him an inappropriate text.
He has just arrived on my doorstep to pick DD (5) up and all of a sudden he goes outside and is talking to someone. I ask him who it is and he says I'll tell you later. I ask if it's a girlfriend and he says sort of... Then he announces to DD that they have to take her home later and would he like to meet Aunty whatever her name is.
FFS - it's not that I have problems with him having a girlfriend - she's welcome to him frankly. It would just have been nice to have known what he was planning rather than him rock up on my doorstep with her in tow. It will be me that has to deal with everything as per normal whilst he just goes about his merry little way trying to make his life as easy as possible.
I feel for the poor girl really. She was abandoned on the doorstep at the ex marital home. How awkward for her. She obviously hasn't been exposed to his emotional stuntedness (sorry - that's appalling grammar) yet. Mind you it took me 10 years to get to the bottom of it.
I could go on but I would likely get more and more vitriolic and that will just make me seem bitter. Actually I'm not - I've moved on totally but I always put DD first whilst he always put himself first and I can't understand how for all those years I put up with it.
Ok, I'm not going to send him a text, I will rise above it but I really would like to shake him and ask him what the fuck he thinks he's doing to our beautiful daughter.
If I can just finish by saying he's a selfish bastard.
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