Recently I found out my husband had been texting/phoning another woman and this had been going on for a few months, so he tells me. I never seen any of the messages so I had no idea what they were talking about until one day I seen one that said something along the lines of 'I love u, u are my world'. This made me feel so sick we have been married for 9 and a half years and I thought our marriage was fine. I just have every feeling under the sun going though me rite now. He has since moved out as I can't trust him no more and I get the feeling he doesnt want to sort things out that he wants to make a go of it with this other woman to c what he's missing out on. We have a daughter together so we stay in contact for her. Though when he visits he acts like he still wants to be with me but I know he is still talking to this other woman. Well I have been doing a bit of fb stalking and now know who she is I want to send her a message but at the same time don't want to come across as a mad woman. Do I just do my best to forget about it. I know deep down she has prob done me a favour, now I no exactly what my ex is like. But at the same time it's killing me that he can throw away our marriage for some woman he's never even met in person before. He won't tell any of his family the reason for us separating and expects me to keep quiet about it too which is killing me even more that I can't talk to anyone about it in fear they will hate him and my daughter will pick up on it. My head is all over the place
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