Hi everyone.. Been with my OH 3 years, sex was more frequent to start with, started to dwindle a bit about a year into the relationship. Usually now it's around twice a week, sometimes once. I think the main issue is I want more than he does.. And I'm also quite experimental and he doesn't seem to be on the same page as me.. We've discussed some of the things I want to try but we just never seem to "get around" to it.. :-/
Anyway, I know he watched porn before he met me (admittedly he lied to me about this and told me he didn't, until I moved in with him, when he admitted he did - and yes I know most/all men watch porn so I should've assumed this but that's another story in itself) when we discussed it more he said he only watched amateur stuff, and only when single. The thing is when I accidentally saw his history once the site he uses/used isn't what I'd call amateur at all.. It is literally all stunning women with fake tan/shoes naval piercings and plastered in make up..
I believe he isn't watching it now but at the same time we don't have sex a lot (and I work weekends so am out the house)
I'm not trying to police anyone's thought/fantasies. But these women really are a world away from what I look like. (And I'm a size 8 but I'm not pretty and I'm 30!!) someone erasure me I'm just having a wobble, please? Thanks xxx
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Am I overthinking (re porn)??
Toohotcats · 15/08/2015 08:31
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