I just cant do it anymore, I cant take his disloyalty, his disregard, his complete and utter lack of care for me and my feelings.
To provide background ive been with my partner for 7+ years. During that time I have been harassed by his ex/her friends and her family to the stage where I had to get police involved.
He did approach her/the others and from what I gather tried nicely to reason with them, there was no "don't talk to me anymore if you continue to treat my girlfriend like this", no "you are disgusting behaving this way towards Sosohurt".
this I accepted - he had a child with her - I didn't want to cause any more issues, I stood by him through bankruptcy, subsequent depression, operation, you name it.
he has allowed his daughter whom I have gone out of my way to be good to to disrespect me on an ongoing basis for over a year now, this I also accepted in the he knows how to handle this best scenario.
Today I reached the end, I found out that via social media he is attempting to be friendly towards his ex/her family again. It just woke me up, he has never really stood up for me, never wanted to be involved in my issues with them, even though they harassed me over him - I was not the ow but his wife decided she wanted to reconcile with him when we were together about 6 months and when he stayed with me the harassment started.
I have been called a loon, a crazy, told Im mental etc etc for objecting to this. Basically really nasty nasty stuff. Im drained. My friend has contacted me to say she was aware that he was at this and that she found it so disrespectful also that she said it to him.
I have asked him to leave our shared rental apartment and he says he will go when suits him. Im utterly exhausted fighting him but my son goes to school nearby here and I don't want to have to move, very little rental opportunities around here - sorry I just needed to say all that [sad}
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Sosohurt2015 · 05/08/2015 17:53
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