I am so fed up. I split up with my ex almost a year ago. We had a rubbish relationship and I texted an ex and he found out. I know I shouldn't have been texting other men but there was a lot going on in the relationship and I should have just ended it straight out.
Anyway in the last year although he has moved out we are still so tangled up. He treats me appallingly but I just can't seem to get rid of him. I don't have the strength to stand up to him. I just let him walk all over me for an easy life and part of me still loves him. Or the him that he was when we first met. We keep sleeping together which I know has to stop. We have a child together too.
There had been abuse, verbal, emotional and some violence although to be fair I gave as good as I got. There has been no violence for the last few months.
Anyway I have told him I want him to leave me alone and now he is threatening to come to my work. I don't know what to do. He has already messaged two of my male colleagues on Facebook giving the abuse. I have worked in my job a long time, I am good at it and he is going to ruin it. I don't know what to do. I feel like crying. My main boss is visiting the office today too. I am a grown adult I don't want drama at my work. I could get sacked!
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Threatening to come to my work
DoTheDuckFace · 05/08/2015 09:32
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