So, I've been in this relationship for 18 months or so and to be honest, was completely smitten, love struck and couldn't believe that a man this amazing could possibly be interested in me. I didn't let on I thought this and tried to play it cool etc.
I am in love with him, and believe he loves me. When we're together (every weekend because we live about 40 miles apart) he's affectionate, loving and respectful towards me - always
I don't know if I'm just suddenly starting to see it or whether he's just started showing his true colours, but he's been doing and saying some things (on social media mainly) that I really don't like
There's a particular woman, who is married, but is also into burlesque and runs various club type things to do with it, and I really think he flirts terribly with her on FB. Just comments on her status, things that aren't obviously outrageous, but could easily be read between the lines of. He has also recently put comments up that to me are vulgar. His mates are proper 'lads' and he does keep up a lad like attitude with them, which is fine. Bit childish, but doesn't bother me normally. But this time, he made a comment which included a joke including the word pussy and him attracting them like a whiskers factory. It was a joke, but nonetheless, I found it vulgar - mainly and probably because he had just made a comment on this burlesque woman's status within the same minute. I think he had been to the pub after work and was probably a little drunk.
It don't know why it has bothered me so much - I feel a little bit sick and was that cross that I switched off all social media and also my phone because I don't want him to contact me. This is the first time I have ever even come remotely close to wanting to do this.
Not sure if I'm just tired and in a really bad mood - or whether this is serious and I've seen another side to him that I really don't like. Am I overacting?
Sorry for the pettiness - just wanted to put it out there!
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Starting to see another side of DP - and I don't like it
excitedbutscared · 04/08/2015 21:56
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