I turned 50 last week so husband and I treated ourselves to a week-end away. Arrived at hotel, drinks in the bar, eating dinner and chatting generally when I mentioned the name of a woman I had been friends with some years previously. Our girls were friends at school and we were friends until we moved away a couple of years later.
My husband sat there and told me that this woman had tried to kiss him ... Just like that completely out of the blue ! I was so stunned. The look on his face when he told me was, I don't know, sort of proud and I can't get that out of my head.
We have been married a long time (28 years) so have had the conversation 'has anyone ever come on to you' etc and he always said no, laughing that he would be too dense to even notice and up until now I would have agreed.
So why didn't he tell me when I asked ? He said it was just because I mentioned her name and he remembered. He said he didn't tell me at the time because we were moving away and guessed we would not keep in contact. We did though, her children came to stay with us after we moved, we sent Christmas cards for a while. I even invited her to our eldest daughters 18th birthday party, she accepted but then didn't turn up and I never heard from her again.
He says he didn't kiss her, that he turned away. They were not drunk. It was after a surprise going away party that we threw for our daughters and she helped organise. I was cleaning up in the kitchen and, apparently, walked in on them just after it happened.
Posting on here as we have moved again and left my girlfriends behind on the other side if the world. All our friends here are mutual friends.
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Pominoz1 · 04/08/2015 17:14
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